I am Hot

I am Hot.  

I am Sexy,  

I am Beautiful,  

And I am better than enough.  

These are the things I tell myself when I take a picture, I see myself in the mirror or even when I see old pictures of me. Standard practice has always told women that skinnier is healthier, and that couldn’t be further from the truth. Being healthy is beautiful, being kind is sexy, being hot is caring. Better than enough to me is doing my best to be the best version of “unapologetically me”. I know that I am not perfect and that is my best quality, I am open to my mistakes and conscious of the words I chose to say while being respectful to others.  

It is my mouth, my body and my mind.  

These are the things that I wish everyone would think when they see a reflection of themselves or a picture. I believe that every human being is beautiful if they chose to be. It is your mindset, your choice, why let anyone take that away from you?  

Living is a gift and I am so grateful, so why body shame the body that lets you live this beautiful life?  

Live it to the fullest, and be grateful for all the little things that it does for you when you aren’t paying attention. It loves you, supports you and carries you. You need to love, support, and embrace what lets you live. I know this is harder said than done, but a positive mindset will help you glide through life with the best reality you can possibly live.  

Try for a month writing these down and reading them out loud to yourself; 

I am Hot.  

I am Sexy,  

I am Beautiful,  

And I am better than enough. 

I guarantee you will feel like a new person. No one matters but yourself and social media takes that away from you.  

If you are kind, caring, and unapologetically you, to me you are beautiful.